People really dont choose who they love and who they don't love. You can't make a person love you, just because you want it to be so.
There's a pretty big age difference between the two of you. In 10 years, that won't make a difference, right now 19 and 25 is a big gap.
Be her friend if that's what you want, but don't expect anything romantic to come of it, because it just might not. As for the ex... just because you think someone is wrong for her, and she can do a lot better, until she sees that for herself, there is NOTHING you can do... She wants someone to support her and her choices -- not tell her that the guy she loves is bad for her... Be a friend...
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