jaded

i agree with you pinkie men and women play different roles in a relationship and react to stimulations differently. the case in point is different in that 1) flirting is not the same as masturbation and 2) more importantly, your husband is in the know. my whole point was: do not impose on her husband what she wouldn't want her husband do to her. although your husband enjoys your being naughty, her husband might have a totally different reaction. i, too, like flirting a lot, yet my boyfriend didn't like that, so i learn to control myself. after all, masturbating online and going shoeshopping with galpals are in two totally separate categories, IMO.