well, think of this the other way around: if it is your husband who jerks off online with men or women he met on the internet, would you feel comfortable about it? would you consider it cheating or merely his way of spicing things up for himself without you in the know? that would be the most lenient test of whether this constitutes cheating, because even if you could accept him doing that behind your back, he might not be as \"liberal\" as you.
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