I'm picky, things have to be a specific way in a specific order on my tree, so hubby will help me move stuff around to make room, set it up, and then it's all me! The outside lights are also my job, because hubby could care less...but the girls love them, so they HAVE to go up, so I end up doing those, sometimes my cousin will come over and give me a hand, and I always love the girls faces when they see them, so I don't mind...(ok maybe a little smidgen
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We have Christmas 'Brunch' at the big house. It's a duplex Grandma on one side, My Mom on the other. We ALL clean and being the eldest of 13 grandkids, we have lots of little hands to help, plus my girls 'The greatgrandgirls' love to pitch in whenever possible. The boys tho, they most definatly take advantage of all the kids and the woman working and they end up chillin' on the couch, but if we needed anything Grandma would put them in thier place by just looking at them and asking...you don't mess with Grandma!!