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Yup, it's a matter of her perception and his perception. Even if you think you might want to be more than ffriends, if the other person has already made the decision to be your "friend", that's what you will be, propably always.
when I was younger I had only female friends, and I could never get an answer from any of them about why they were just friends. Years later, I was dating several women at the same time, all of whom were more interested in me as a boyfriend, and as far as I could see, I was the same guy.
Who knows where these feelings come from, we are human and, as such, are not easily deconstructed like a software program to see where the "bugs" are.
Just be glad you have friends becasue it's much easier to have lots of firends than it is to have even one enemy.
Peace,
Pierre
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