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Old 11-29-2004, 10:09 AM   #8 (permalink)
sexymama
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Originally Posted by Rodney
Tell each of them what the other said. Then tell them to work it out together and agree who's inviting you. Tell them that if they can't agree, you're not going to either place, because there's no way you can tell who's telling the truth and you don't want to choose between them.

They made the problem, not you. Let them solve it.
Right on!

Then tell them that in the future, dad communicates about dad only and mom communicates about mom only. So, if mom wants to cancel plans, she cancels herself, not through dad, and vis versa. You've got to get yourself out of the middle of this.
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