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Originally Posted by kollege_gal2000
I have found that sometimes when I am held down (non forcefully), but enough so that I can't move my shoulders, I flip sometimes. I know it's difficult on my b/f because of this, and yes he's understanding (most of the time)
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I believe that the term for that is being "triggered". When your brain associates an action with your past and then throws you into the moment. It can be very hard for rape victims. Make sure that you explain that kind of stuff to him if you havent already... I hope he understands and has the willpower to stop what he's doing and just care for you at those moments.