nack104

First of all, I'm a virgin.

When I was with my ex, I would get hard from just kissing her. However, I would almost lose it as soon as she went down on me. Then, when I reached for my condom, I lost my erection. I believe that if I had put in my penis with a condom I probably would have been fine, but it was soon as I tried putting the condom on that I lost it. I asked my ex if she could help in any way IE giving me a hand job or something, and she was disgusted. Another time, she attempted getting me off by dry humping, but it didn't work and she got bored. Maybe you can see why she's my ex.

Anyways, I've always had anxiety. Whenever I go to the bathroom, I can not pee when someone else is in there. I try as hard as I can, but the urine will just not come out until everyone leaves. I think this has some connection with my sexual issue, but I don't know what to do. I was considering taking viagra when I was with my ex, but I didn't see why I needed it since I could easily get an erection from simply kissing her.

What do you guys think I should do? I currently do not have a girlfriend, but I would have in the future to get into the same predicament. I can't tell my next gf that I refuse to use condoms because I find that really rude. Does anyone have any advice?