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Originally Posted by Frowning Budah
The first year is always the hardest, so many things you have to adjust to. Just relax and know things will get better.
Try this if you are looking to make a Friend, Look around and see who also is sitting by themselves and looking miserable and strike up a conversation.
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I have found later years in the university to be in fact harder, due to the heavy time pressure... What I have gained in academic stuff, I have lost in the social/living sector (and by that, I mean that I have *totally* missed some things during the last four years, such as finding a new g/f
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I think anyone in this scenario has two options: either start living and let academics go to hell, or keep going under the tight schedule and hope something comes along (as it came to me last year - was with a girl for two weeks, dumped me because I had abolutely no time; and, I was apparently needy - gave me some independecy crap as an excuse, but that's a whole other thread by itself).
