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Originally Posted by Robaggio
You're assuming a lot about me from such a small comment. For the sake of argument, it's much easier to explain the broad situation in terms of such stereotypes. This is especially the case on a message board where nobody knows me personally. Just take my word for the record that this situation is mostly out of my control.
I'm not the one meeting people on a superficial level. I'm the one with the open mind getting burned at every step of the corner. Just when I meet someone and I think "hey, this person could be an 'amazing multi-dimentional person'" red flags get thrown in my face. This post of mine was more of a rant against society than a cry for help. So take it as such, regardless of how surprising it may be to you that I have a girlfriend.
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If you took offense to what I said then you should remind yourself that all I had to go on was your original post. Although my post wasn't intended to hurt anyone's feelings, I can only call it as I see it.
But now that you've clarified the situation, I've run into the same problem quite a few times. I find that it's best to remind myself that although there might be red flags a person can still surprise you.
Keep an open mind, let a few things slide and do whatever it is you do. The situation will sort itself out but if all else fails there's always
this.