Originally Posted by maleficent

Any person, be it male or female, that wants a custodial parent choose between them and the child, I have no patience for. That's what it sounds like she's doing. You and your child come as a set, she knew about him when she moved in, she should have figured out what she was getting into.

Dating a dad is not easy, and it's not for everyone, since she's moved in with you, you obviously have some string feelings for her, I'd sit her down and lay your cards on the table, he's your child, and right now, he's coming first because he needs you. The choice, is then, up to her.