instead of YOU making the decision, this is an area where SHE needs to be making the decision. You didn't hide the child until she moved in and then surprised her with it, right? She knew she was getting into a relationship where a child was involved, she may not have known how demanding a young one can be, but now she's seeing it. If its not her cup of tea, then she can choose to leave. What she should not be doing is trying to be more important than the child. If she can't handle being in a 'family' (loose term since she's not the momma) situation, then she has the choice of not dealing with it by leaving.
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