i fake it on demand. it's a great party trick, plenty of laughter is sure to follow.
most girls i know who have faked it did it because
1) they just weren't in the mood for sex and he wouldn't stop till they came
2) they felt bad for the guy and wanted to soothe his ego (which is such bs imo--not like he'd fake one for me!)
3) they don't know how to orgasm and are embarrassed about it. to hide their own inexperience, they fake it.
but right along with the other women, i gotta say that faked orgasms shouldn't be a part of sex. i either teach him how to get me there or just tell him that i'm not in the mood and it just isn't going to happen for me. i'm almost always willing to have sex. even if i'm not "in the mood" i can get there or at least accomodate my partner's needs. sex feels good even without the orgasm if you know what you are doing. i know plenty of girls who don't need one every time. as long as i get them when i want them, i'm a happy camper.
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