hahhaa, relax thats so far from slutty its scary
and shopping/going out with friends is usually a nonsexual thing
if you feel comfortable keeping this from him and dont feel guilty about it then no harm no foul right?
personally i could never be happy being with a man who couldnt accept me and didnt want to share deeper intimacy with me
maybe i'm crazy liberal but that just seems like a relationship built on false pretenses