maleficent

Are you being selfish and stupid? Only you can answer that question.

You are both getting older, and both getting to that stage where you might want to think about settling down and making your long term relationship permanent. She's a little older than you are, so she just might be hearing that annoying biological clock. Maybe the idea of "settling down" scares you a wee bit.

That hotter girl for you, that might or might not exist could be your brain screaming out you that you aren't ready to settle down.

Three years is a long time in a relationship, have you had conversations about what each of you want in the future?

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