Originally Posted by mmiller0617

I appreciate everyones help in this matter.

While the argument of having a child is great and wonderful the one that seems to commonly appear is that you can take all of your trips when you are older. That is the problem being older. I am 31 right now so I will be 50 by the time we get to be empty nesters. Ugh!!!
Having said that though, yesterday we went to get the sonogram and seeing our baby and hearing its heartbeat made it all seem that much more real and we are going to give it a go!!!!

I am scared like crazy and so is she. YEs we will have to move into a different apartment farther out from the city than we wanted, yes we only saw our friends thru happy hours in smoky bars and that will end, yes our 1 year anniversary trip to Paris/London is now not going to happen, but we will be having a baby who we will love very much. When I heard that heartbeat, I knew I was going to have to give up a ton but I just didn't care.