My fiancee is not finacially responsible at all I'd rather not but she ask me to hold all her credit cards and even debt card and has to ask me all the time for 20.00 for the week because she just signs over her check to me. She is a self confessed "shop addict". I'd like her to be more indepedant but when I have tried to let her take care of the finances herself she will implode and goes negative on her checkings pay cards late and max out credit. So I pay all her bills.
She allows me to take care of everything because I am almost fanatical about getting the lowest rates, paying everything off early etc etc, I even have an desktop calendar show me when I have any due dates approaching for anything and the possible rates for cc's if I carry a balance. I'd rather not have so much responsibility but I suppose it works our for now especially since we have a house being built and saving a largish downpayment is needed.
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