|
Yea, I'd love to tell you to just "forget about her", but I can't in good conscience do that. I broke up with a girl a while ago, have had several other realationships in that time, but I still really can't get over her. That's partly because of how coldly she treated me, partly because I found out that she had been lying to me. But that's another story.
Here's a few helpful ways to get over it faster:
1) Part of the hardship of a breakup is the feeling that no one loves you. So, first, get really really drunk. Whilst drunk, most inhibitions will disapper, and you're be more honest with yourself and everyone else. It'll give you the feeling that everyone loves you - it'll make you very warm and happy. Vodka is your friend.
2) Tell her how you feel. Make sure she knows why she's a bitch - especially if you know that it's not your fault.
3) Give up on this 'winning her heart back' stuff. She left you. That meas that, in some part of her mind, she was tired of you. It will only lead to more heartbreak for you in the future if you get her back.
In summary: Get really, really drunk...tell her to fuck off... leave her be.
__________________
"I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."
|