| I agree with lurkette on this.  And also why should society dictate what the 'ideal' couple should be.  Sometimes I wonder if society plays too big a role in how we determine ourselves as individuals or couples.  I agree it will, however, play a part whether we want it to or not.  Find yourself first then your relationship with your s.o. will simply fall into place. 
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 "Things do not change: We change"
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