I agree with lurkette. We are not to be defined compared to men, nor they to us. Yout role is what you make it. If you want to be submissive, be submissive. If you want to dominant, dominate.
I found my special guy by flying my own way, which happens to be, strong, well-educated, ambitious and giving about as much as I take...he kept up and we've been married for better than 5 years now.
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