I'll just echo what many others have said here already - do what works for the two of you. Figure out what is realistically affordable and go from there. It's <b>your</b> wedding, so don't worry about what's "right" or "wrong." 
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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