wow, first congrats on the marriage. How much did you and the missus discuss children before getting married? I would guess that you two talked about it, when you thought you would have kids..etc. Well I say whatever you decide, make sure you support your wife as she is probably thinking many of the same things you are.
The trips and toys can wait, you can have kids and still go to school, it just takes alot more effort and time. My wife and I currently have a 7 month old little girl I found out my wife was pregant the day before I was quiting my job to go back to school. So now I still work, but go to school parttime instead of full time. It can be done, good luck!
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