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Hey...
It's funny... Your situation sounds like the one my girlfriend is in. We've been together for about 3 years and our relationship is rock solid. In the beginning we were going at it like rabits, trying out new positions, new locations, new toys. Lately, in the past year, I've found that I am by far hornier than she is. I'm hard at the drop of a bra, but she needs stimulation first.
Her first sexual experience was also a rape when she was young. But she has gone through a lot of therapy to come to grips with it. She has even forgiven her rapist. It's hard to say if the rape is completly to blame. My gf is getting ready to start her final semester of college so we consider stress to be a big factor.
My advice to you is to seek counseling. If money is tight because you're in college, then find a psychiatrist that works on a sliding scale (less money you make, the less they charge). If the thought of sex causes you to feel depressed, you may have some issues you need to egt off your chest in order to feel better.
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