You need to determine if this is a money issue, or a control issue. Frankly I let my wife handle the day to day payment of bills, etc., and I handle the investing. Not so much a matter of control as a matter of who's interested in what. We also go to a financial advisor that helps with taxes, investing, etc. I think that certainly after you're married it all goes into a big pot and decisions are made jointly. Best of luck.
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