Mine too, started out that way at almost 17....I knew I had two choices...(not meant to sound as crass as it might) give in and be a victim the rest of my life and let the man that took my virginity "win" and have hold over the rest of my life....OR realize that not all men are that way and NOT let the shithead win and keep control over my own life and sexuality.
Anyone thats read any of my posts knows I have a VERY active sex life so you can see what direction I went in.....of course my mother always said she'd never met a woman stronger than me...or a woman that could say...this is the way its gonna be...and thats the way it is.
I know not all women can be that way...but I just HATE really really HATE to see a rapist "win".
The first thing you need to do is decide which kind of woman you're going to be....once you realize that you have a CHOICE and put yourself on the right path it will help things a lot for you.
Sorry...thats all the advice I have....
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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