mmiller0617

We just found out we are pregnant, 5 weeks into our marriage. Shocked and stunned is a way to put it.
We want kids but not for awhile. We want to enjoy ourselves and our marriage first but having said that we are having a dilemma in our choice.

I think we are not ready finacially most of all, but also I am a bit selfish and want to take trips and enjoy being married first.
I think she is leaning a bit more towards the other way.

Anyone been here before and have any advice?

Thanks