since i don't know your girlfriend, it's hard to say whether the, "go ahead" is mindgames or actually her showing her true love for you by letting you go. regardless, i would offer up that it's not uncommon for a guy to just randomly think of something in that kind of situation if nothing sexual is going on. if you truly were just relaxing in the tub then it's not unexpected that your mind might wander to what else could be happening at that same point if it were someone else.
I would take some time to reflect on how you feel about both your girlfriend and the mutual friend and try to find out if there is actually a weakness in your relationship, and if that is the case, what can be done about it. compared to my own personal experience, I would not have been able to survive such a conversation in more than one piece, so at the very least, consider yourself lucky to have a very understanding girlfriend who can understand what the concept of mutual honesty means.
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