If you don't have the feelings now, you are better off not going through with the oral sex. Yeah, you will be missing out on something every guy wants, but if you get head, where will you be afterwards? Once she finds out that you don't want a relationship, do you think she will still want anything to do with you? If there is a chance that your feelings will change later, be her friend and only her friend for now and act on your feelings if and when they change. I'm usually not one to discourage oral sex but I wouldn't risk losing a good friend in exchange for a sex act.
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