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Women can tell use they want to be "just friends," there's no reason that we can't throw it back at them every once in a while.
You don't really want to do this, but you're subconsciously giving in to a cultural sterotype that refusing sex makes you less masculine or a wuss. If it isn't right for you, don't do it. I'm all for free love andd sexual expression, but if you don't want to do it, don't let anyone else make you feel bad about it. You're sending her the wrong signal by accepting the offer, and it's a whole lot easier to undo not hvaing done it than it is to undo having done it. If you don't want to commit to "no" right now, tell her you though about it and you're not sure, maybe some other time.
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