I appreciate, understand and relate to much of your advice. Since I'm in a bit of a rush, I should ask jst one question.
" That she will become accustomed to the role of the recipient permitted constant indulgence and you as the doormat."
How might you guys suggest I could turn this around a bit? Give myself a more dominant place in the relationship, while still caring for her and continue giving to her?
Cheers
Paul
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