I've been playing videogames ALL my life. Many include tasks that require uber-fast reflex button-mashing, which I have seemed to perfect. No one can beat my Mr. Driller Records, exercising in GTA: San Andreas was a piece of cake for me, and I seem to be able to tap a button just as fast as turbo-mode on most controllers can send the signal to the machine.
What does this have to do with the act of pleasuring a wooman with your fingers? EVERYTHING! At least for one woman I know. Here's my story:
I went to visit an old "friend" of mine yesterday. At some point during the day, she got tired and laid down on her bed. I was about to leave when she asked me to join her. So we just laid there, talking for a little bit, and she seemed to go to sleep. I tried, but I just couldn't; I mean, I had this beautiful woman laying next to me, who whenever I saw her in the past, I ended up having sex with her. How could I just go to sleep?
She noticed my tossing and turning, and she proceeded to say, "I know. I'm sexually frustrated, too." You see, she has a boyfriend, now. That's why we were restraining ourselves. After a few minutes, I asked her, "Would you like me to help you with some of your 'frustrations'?" She said, "We can't have sex, but I always loved the way you used to finger me. You can finger me if you want." I know what you're thinking; "No sex!? No way!" But I really did want to help her, not just myself, so I proceeded to finger her until (I think) orgasm (A guy never
knows when a girl orgasms, but given it was super-wet, she was writhing around, essentially humping my hand, and when she asked me to stop she was too exhausted to stay awake, I'd say it's safe to say she had one).
So, here is my technique that she oh-so-loves. First I do all the slight-rubbing foreplay crap that really gets her in the mood; y'know, rubbing around the thighs and the sides of her pussy. Then I enter with one finger, first going in and out as if it were intercourse with a really really small penis. But here's where all that videogame practice comes in (I know you're saying "Finally this guy has a point"): I start moving that finger inside her with a rapid motion. I use the same "twitch reflexes" that I would use to build Carl Johnson's stamina on a treadmill. After awhile I then put a second finger in (first my middle finger, then my index finger), doing the same thing with those two fingers. Then goes in the third, and very rarely a fourth.
What she loves to do is, while lying on her back, raise her ass up into the air so I can "explore" deeper with my fingers. She loves it when I go in as deep as I can and move those fingers in unison with my "twitch reflexes" (I call 'em that because it feels like I'm not completely controlling my fingers; like all I'm doing is tensing my muscles and the fingers do almost all the work for me), and doing that is what brought her to orgasm.
So women; if you, too, enjoy a speedy hand when being pleasured by your SO, get him to play the heck out of any videogame where you have to mash the buttons. It really helped in my case!
P.S. For the record, I was NOT thinking about videogames when this took place.