skier makes a lot of great points. My personal opinion however is a bit different from where he seems to be going. I think you have to try everything. I'm the similar to you in that I couldn't just go find some random girl and hook up. I'm also in the same age range as you, being 18. I think after looking back on, although short, my memorable life there are a lot of things I could have done that I regret not doing.
You don't know what casual sex is like until you've done it. You can't know what you're missing you can't know what's on the other side of this situation wtih this girl. If you go through life not wanting to hurt or be hurt you're going to end up much worse.
so in short i leave you with the famous words of Jonathan Larson (R.I.P.) "No day but today."
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