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I think you mean that he likes to hop on her bed and make-pretend to be hanging out there like its their favourite hangout place. Some assholes are like that, and technically, since they aren't shagging the girl, they think its ok and their conscience is clear. And deep inside, its an ego booster for them, cause they're further in the game than you are. And its as if the girl is a willing party cause they havent even professed to like the girl.
Its sad for me to say that in my teens, I have had lots of friends who are like such assholes. Don't give them the satisfaction of telling them to fuck off. Thats going to make him feel even bigger cause it means his meaningless actions have an effect on you.
IMO, just cause she wants to be friends doesn't mean you don't have a chance. Since you've already told her you like her.. why not continue the pursuit until you get a definite yes or no? I prefer to crash and burn knowing that I've done all I can, than to walk away pretending to be clutching some bits of dignity.
A good friend once gave me a good piece of advice.. "when you play football, do you play to win... or do you play to not lose?"
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