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Originally Posted by xjumper84
Here is the situation, there is a girl down the hall from me who has told me that she doesn't want to date me right now cause she wants to get to know me better, as we are good friends.
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Translation: "I don't want to date you but I feel bad telling you that."
Trust me, I've used the "I don't want to date you yet; I want to be friends first" line on several guys I'd never actually date to keep from hurting their feelings. It sounds a lot nicer than, "No, I don't like you like that at all. I could never date you, but I still want to be friends."
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Originally Posted by xjumper84
What is your recommendation to tell him to bug the fuck off? Even though he claims he doesn't want to get with her, but yet at every chance he gets he sleeps in her bed?
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Since she's not your girlfriend, she has a right to "get with" anyone she wants, and you have no right telling this guy to bugger off. What they do is between them. I'd move on. Find someone who reciprocates your feelings
