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		 I hate to say this, but sometimes if a "nice" guy who I'm not really into in the boyfriend-kinda way wants to date and I feel too bad to just give him a total no, I'll say something like "how about lets be friends first...".  That looks like what she's doing...if I were you I'd look elsewhere for a girl.  Who knows?  Maybe if you go out with another girl and she doesn't see you as being available for her choosing, she may come chasing after you instead. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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