If she's not your girlfriend, what's happening with them isn't really your business. Sorry, but she knows how you feel about her, so it is up to her at this point. Depending how close you are to this guy, you could have a man-to-man and let him know you have feelings for her and ask him to step aside. But it doesn't sound like you would do that for him - so I doubt "asshole" would be interested in walking away from what is at least apparently a steady place to be at night for him?
Don't waste effort that could be used on a hundred other girls waiting for your sweet, sweet lovin'! Her loss.
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Oft expectation fails...
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