I've been in your shoes with an untrusting partner. Isn't it ironic that she is the one going through your personal voice mail, yet your the one on the defense? An ex of mine went through my email and voice mail (I never kept passwords a secret from her, couldn't imagine I would need to), and that pretty much told me it was time to move on.
Obviously her insecurity has bled over to what was a relaxed, fun sex life. Unfortunately, most women really believe "once a cheater, always a cheater" (Am I wrong ladies?) and although your honesty with her is impressive, you probably shot yourself in the foot. There is nothing wrong with keeping a few of the details of your past romances to yourself. It has nothing to do with your relationship with her, and many people, men and women both, find it hard to shake some of that stuff once things get serious.
Cool fetish, by the way. It incorporates the "forbidden fruit" aspect of including her friend without the emotional side. A "safe" threesome, if you will...
Petite moi - I really enjoy your posts on TFP. I really believe that you haven't had any attraction to another guy since you met your man. There can be a difference between being attracted to somebody (feelings included) and just finding others sexy. As long as you're committed to the relationship, it can be fun to let your partner play around with fantasy scenarios, if even only in their mind, no?
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