Im having this same problem now also. Ive been with dude for over a year, and Im gettting so bored, and the sex is reallllllly starting to SUCK. I just suggest not doing what I did, that is asking the bf to move in. But its like Im lonely at first and want them there and after that they dont leave
. In this case this person keeps telling me, "I'll stay as long as you want me." but at the same time I feel bad about kicking him out.