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Ok so am I an idiot, stupid or will she understand.

I met a lady and we had played phone tag and what not. She seemed extremely interested in me and I in her.

So today there was a halloween party and I had offered to take her, but she had told me she might go out with friends, which was cool it was kind of a last minute invite (Thurs.nite).

She called and explained she was going out and I was driving around and was cool.

THEN IT CAME:

Her: "Well I'm going out with some g/f and I"m not going out on a date with another guy or anything, maybe I can get away early."

ME: "Whoa, it's not like we're dating yet (stressed word YET), if you have plans with another that's cool it's none of my business."

From there she got kind of taken aback and then I got nervous wanting to tell her that what I was trying to say was I respect her privacy and she didn't have to explain her going out. Instead I sounded like a total blithering idiot, and the more I appologized the worse it sounded because I didn't know what to say after that original statement.

She knows I'm seperated and she is a very nice lady with a good heart that until I was a blithering idiot seemed to be someone I could have a relationship with.

SO was I naive and she was giving me some form of signal about her night out...... was I an idiot by my response.... how can I explain to her why I turned into a blithering idiot who made no sense..... help....

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