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Your girlfriends psychological problems are not your burden. You will have to learn to live with them, but her mother using it as a bargining chip is a bit underhanded. You aren't seeing other people. It seems to be her idea that you're cheating. Her mother seems to be living vicariously through your gf, and she is being paranoid about you cheating on her. I have to admit that what her mother is doing seems more serious than her daughters supposed bipolar problem.
What I would do in your shoes: It's time to be honest (as most people beefore me have said). "I love your daughter very much. I love her enough to call her and visit her as much as is possible. I can't do the impossible, though. What would be impossible is to call her every night. What would be impossible is to drive and see her as often as you seem to want me to. I am willing to do everything I can to be with her, but ther are limits to waht I can do right now. I can't give up school to see her more often, as my car is old and could brake down any second. I can't call her every night because I don't have the money. If (insert gf/daughters name her) is worried about me, we'll talk and work it out. I appreciate your concern, but we have this handeled. Thanks."
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