Wow, you've got youself a tough situation here. I think the best policy would be to talk to the Mother. Tell her what you've said, be honest about your concerns and feelings, and if she's a reasonable person, she should back off. If she doens't listen to you, then I'd talk to your girlfriend, maybe she could get through to your mother. At this point I'd say honesty is your best policy. Good luck!
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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