IT may be true that the orgasm is the culmination of sex, but there are MANY things that feel very good for both the guy and the girl without orgasm. You two are doing a very fun activity. It's not a task, or a goal oriented action. Just loosen up and have fun exploring each other's bodies, getting comfortable with what feels good and what feels GREAT. Have her communicate what feels good to her- get her vocal with her pleasure. Look for body cues for when she likes what you do. Her orgasming will come sometime in the future, so don't worry about doing it right away.
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