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Pwilll · 10-29-2004, 01:39 PM

I know there has been other threads like this, I can use the search feature, but, there is none quite like mine so please read my situation and try to help me out some, thanks in advance.

So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months; we aren't having sex but we're doing everything else. We just started to do oral a few months ago and since we're both so busy, we never really have a chance to do anything. Last night we went at it pretty hard but then at the end of the night, she got really depressed. When I asked her why, she told me that she felt disapointed that she couldn't have an orgasm. Since she never has masturbated, which I actually believe because she is catholic and has just recently gone to the darkside at all. I reconsoled her and told her that lots of girls have this problem and that we'd work at it together until she could when, I realized that she thought it was my fault, though she'd never admit it. I've made other girls come, I dont' consider myself bad at any of the sexual acts. This makes sense to me a little, she's never had any other partners in anything, nor masturbated. Being a regular guy, it makes me happy to make her happy and, I'd give anything to help her come. I really feel bad especially since she thinks that it's my fault. I've tried to help her and tell her to relax and she says that she is.

Any advice on either aspect of it?

Thanks tons.

10-29-2004, 01:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
Pwilll Upright	Girlfriend can't come, thinks it's my fault I know there has been other threads like this, I can use the search feature, but, there is none quite like mine so please read my situation and try to help me out some, thanks in advance. So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months; we aren't having sex but we're doing everything else. We just started to do oral a few months ago and since we're both so busy, we never really have a chance to do anything. Last night we went at it pretty hard but then at the end of the night, she got really depressed. When I asked her why, she told me that she felt disapointed that she couldn't have an orgasm. Since she never has masturbated, which I actually believe because she is catholic and has just recently gone to the darkside at all. I reconsoled her and told her that lots of girls have this problem and that we'd work at it together until she could when, I realized that she thought it was my fault, though she'd never admit it. I've made other girls come, I dont' consider myself bad at any of the sexual acts. This makes sense to me a little, she's never had any other partners in anything, nor masturbated. Being a regular guy, it makes me happy to make her happy and, I'd give anything to help her come. I really feel bad especially since she thinks that it's my fault. I've tried to help her and tell her to relax and she says that she is. Any advice on either aspect of it? Thanks tons.