I would have to say that the positions you have sex in don't have anything to do with being submissive/dominant, unless chains or restraints are involved. Different positions bring different pleasures. I like my girlfriend riding me because it lets me relax and enjoy, provides ample access to her breasts, and it's really easy to kiss her. Sometimes in that position I start thrusting and it is actually better for her that way because I can thrust a lost faster that way then when I'm on top.
Sex is not always about domination and submission, although it can be. Many times sex is just about giving and recieving pleasure and/or love. Although that is not to say that the two are mutually exclusive, can still exchange pleasure and/or love while being dominant/submissive.
So in conclusion of this long response, I would have to say that I do not agree with your associate.
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