Ah! So there's silience now when it comes to sex. Novices.... Look, I know enough to know that there are some pretty loving women out there who in their mind believe it is ok to have sex with as many partners as it takes until they find Mr. Right. Of course, they don't come up and tell you this but by the way your girl seems to be acting it's written all over her. If you take things slow you are confirming your gay or more likely establishing that you will be a "true" friend or even worse a "big brother". Now you must ask her "Are we dating?" because nights at bar could count as dates whether you both know it or not. And I'm not gonna come right out and say "Fuck her!", that's man's instinct. I given you enougn bullshit so I leave you with this,"Let things play out and change these personal talks she has about herself and problems (which is quite frightening to me!) into something more enjoyable like what she finds fun as a hobby (Corny, I know.) then use that. Whatever you do let her make the first move.
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Slowly but surely getting over the loss of TFP v. 3.0.
Where the hell am I?....
Showering once a month does not make you a better person.
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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