I'm a big guy and have had pretty good success. Key is tune into fashion, dress nice, do the whole grooming thing (stylish hair, good cologne, etc.) I'm not talking success in one night stands or anything (I had a problem landing those even when I was slimmer), but in overall dating. After you address the style issue, confidence will come and everything will follow. When you feel good, it shows and makes you that much more attractive. I would also suggest match.com, or another online service. I've had great success through that (it really expands your spectrum of prospective dates) and even usually waited for girls to contact me (which they did). My girlfriend now and I have been dating for just about a year and everything is great!
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