Alicat: I feel for you. It sucks being w/a messed up parent. We all know it may happen, but who wants it to happen? You and hubby are not confrontational - deal w/that and tell your sis and BIL to deal w/it. You don't have the space for it. I know - it sounds cold. But you need to keep the interests of your mother at heart. She wouldn't be comfortable w/you; you wouldn't be comfortable w/her.
Another option - have you considered your mother moving to an apartment or assisted-living? Serious option, but one to consider.
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