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		 Alicat: I feel for you.  It sucks being w/a messed up parent.  We all know it may happen, but who wants it to happen?  You and hubby are not confrontational - deal w/that and tell your sis and BIL to deal w/it.  You don't have the space for it.  I know - it sounds cold.  But you need to keep the interests of your mother at heart.  She wouldn't be comfortable w/you; you wouldn't be comfortable w/her. 
   Another option - have you considered your mother moving to an apartment or assisted-living?  Serious option, but one to consider. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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