Communicate, be open, and get into it. I've been in a relationship where the sex was really lousy, the girl wasn't into it and would never try anything new ('That's kinky' or 'Ew that's gross'). My wife is always willing to try something new, and she always enjoys it because she's making me happy, that's just as important as the trying out part.
Some stuff she does that drives me nuts:
Wear sexy lingire
Play dressup for me, schoolgirl, nurse, etc
Trashy makeup (heavy eyeshadow, lipstick...)
Yell and scream and talk dirty, she's naturally loud so I just encourage her to be louder
Shave her privates bald
Cum on her face porno style, a BIG turnon for me
And I'm going to say anal sex because, neither of us really enjoy it so we don't do it, but lots of guys love it
Of course it works both ways, he should be willing to try out your ideas and fantasies. And its not like we do something new or kinky every time, between work and our kid we don't have time to, but when we do have time it makes it alot more fun.
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