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pandafaye · 10-19-2004, 01:56 PM

I have always been really inhibited sexually. This has changed a lot since I've been with my current boyfriend. Long story short, I want to try new things and do interesting things to him, but a lot of what I do seems stereotypical or "boring."

I guess what I'm asking is if anyone has any really interesting ideas for me to try, or perhaps some unique experiences to share.

What would you want to see your girl do?

Konichiwaneko · 10-19-2004, 03:01 PM

I've always been a fan of the waking up in the middle of the night to see my girlfriend straddling me naked going at me. I've had that happen a few times with different people, and it never changes the rush.

Dale Kemp · 10-19-2004, 03:21 PM

Tell him you want to be his slave for a night. Then do exactly what he tells you, really submissive like. If he's hesitant, suggest he make you strip tease for him, then tie you up and maybe spank you. After he gets to have you do some things for him, he'll get the idea, and start to stretch you comfort zone.

Better idea. After a week or two from when you were last his slave, tell him you want to be his slave again. Only this time you want him to really take charge!

Suave · 10-19-2004, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Dale Kemp

Tell him you want to be his slave for a night. Then do exactly what he tells you, really submissive like. If he's hesitant, suggest he make you strip tease for him, then tie you up and maybe spank you. After he gets to have you do some things for him, he'll get the idea, and start to stretch you comfort zone.

Better idea. After a week or two from when you were last his slave, tell him you want to be his slave again. Only this time you want him to really take charge!

Safety word.

Irishsean · 10-19-2004, 08:11 PM

If he refuses, turn the tables and make him your slave...

Willravel · 10-20-2004, 09:17 AM

Invite a friend, play a role, bring in food, buy some toys; comon, use your imagination! You know what your turn ons are. You probably have some idea of what his turn ons are. If you don't check out his porn on his comp.

absorbentishe · 10-20-2004, 10:59 AM

Take him to a strip club, rent some porn to watch together, try Karma Sutra... This could be one killer list.

Dane Bramage · 10-20-2004, 12:16 PM

Here is a Kama Sutra Site to get you started...

http://users.forthnet.gr/ath/nektar/kma/main.htm

I also support the "get some porn to watch together" idea... or hell, just watch it yourself. It can be great inspiration. If it looks like fun... chances are it is. I always have new and interesting things to try with my g/f... and I have never heard her complain yet.

Rinndalir · 10-20-2004, 01:16 PM

Communicate, be open, and get into it. I've been in a relationship where the sex was really lousy, the girl wasn't into it and would never try anything new ('That's kinky' or 'Ew that's gross'). My wife is always willing to try something new, and she always enjoys it because she's making me happy, that's just as important as the trying out part.

Some stuff she does that drives me nuts:

Wear sexy lingire
Play dressup for me, schoolgirl, nurse, etc
Trashy makeup (heavy eyeshadow, lipstick...)
Yell and scream and talk dirty, she's naturally loud so I just encourage her to be louder
Shave her privates bald
Cum on her face porno style, a BIG turnon for me

And I'm going to say anal sex because, neither of us really enjoy it so we don't do it, but lots of guys love it

Of course it works both ways, he should be willing to try out your ideas and fantasies. And its not like we do something new or kinky every time, between work and our kid we don't have time to, but when we do have time it makes it alot more fun.

Aladdin Sane · 10-20-2004, 03:30 PM

Think of a very kinky or unusually thing that would really turn you on, and reveal it to him. Ask him if he would do it for you. He'll love you for it.

Kalnaur · 10-20-2004, 03:43 PM

If you are of age, and he is as well, walk into one of the lingerie & more kind of stores in your area. You know, with everything from simple stuff (condoms) to a bit out there (Replicas of entire female genatalia and posterior in some cases) to bondage gear and toys. Take him with you, and just laugh at all the absurd things, and suggest to him anything that looks like fun to you. Chances are, you'll get ideas, and so will he. It will also give you the chance to show you don't feel so uptight about sex.

World's King · 10-20-2004, 04:29 PM

I get all my ideas from porn.

jenjen · 10-20-2004, 06:25 PM

I think what could be really fun would be to do a strip tease for him and lap dance. See how turned on you can get him by dancing seductively...and do a slow strip tease...trust me it is fun!!!

SparklingDot · 10-20-2004, 09:43 PM

Don't be afraid to start with the things that you consider "ordinary." Those can be great starting points and give you ideas for variations on what works and what doesn't. Exploration is a great way to make your relationship grow, in and out of the bedroom.

Jay You Dee · 10-21-2004, 01:18 AM

I'm with Rinndalir. Nutting on my g/f's face, tits, in her mouth from a distance, all over her and any other place you can think of just really puts the icing on the cake (literally) after a really great BJ. She claims she likes it too - but please remember to close your eyes or they will burn and maybe swell shut (lookin out for you!) And do it with him above your head maybe, because if it gets in your nose, you will sneeze teh manjuice all over your bed, walls, car window, desk.. or whatever kinky place you might be doing that (lookin out for both of yuns~)

Oh and BJs in the car are great. Just tell him to take the back way somewhere and wink at him. Start undoing his pants when you get to a secluded area.. and well you know what to do from there. Trust me, he will love you for it. And don't mind what he says as he 'goes' because he might even propose to you if it's the first time you've done that

Or maybe, when you give him head, go down and lick the stepkids and have him call you a dirty little whore NOW THAT ONE'S NOT FOR EVERYONE, but my GF never seems to mind it

Basically, I'm a head guy, I love head with every ounce of my being, and my girlfriend is a godess and the most perfect female living because she does it in the oddest and most obscure moments, plus she's just damn good at it.

So yeah, those might be too many details about me being a sick minded perv, but hey.. you asked what he might like

justjt · 10-21-2004, 12:01 PM

Wow the possibilities are endless....but try this one and see where it goes.
Girlfriend did this for me and it was so hot...

Go out and buy a new dildo and some lube (keep within the size of his cock...lol)
Then get a little white t-shirt and make it a half shirt (just short enough to see the bottom of your breasts)
Wear a pair of white thong panties and white little anklet socks
Have your hair a little bit wet (like half blow-dried)
and rub a vanilla scented lotion all over you (Amber Romance/Victorias Secret)

Light some candles in the room and put some music on that you know he likes or that you both like to have sex to.
When he comes home meet him at the door and lead him in to the bed room.
Now you can do it either of two ways...you can have him on the bed with you or what was really hot for us was to have a chair set up beside the bed for him to sit in.
Strip his clothes off of him and sit him down and whisper the rules to him...
He can touch himself/ you can touch him/ but he can't touch you until you give him permission.
Ok now for the fun...climb onto the bed and begin to masturbate for him using your fingers first keeping your panites on and just pulling them to the side to insert your fingers.
Then when your good and wet slip off your panites (keep the shirt and little socks on) and bring out your dildo...get out your lube and lube up your toy and your pussy...don't be stingy get it all good and slippery. (men love to hear the sounds of a wet pussy being played with)
By now hopefully he is playing with himself and has a raging erection (I did)...now start fucking yourself with your toy...every now and then exposing your nipples and playing with them...never lose eye contact with him. Do it fast then slow be vocal let him know how good it feels ask him if he likes the way it looks going in and of you...Then get on all fours and do it from behind...(make sure there is enough candles lit so he can see everything)...then for fun put some lube on his cock and jerk it for him for a while then make him do it himself again...then when your ready to cum...have him use the toy on you and you jerk him off till you both cum together (let him cum all over you)....I was so hard and turned on we ended just having sex right after it was extremely hot!!!
Then a nice shower together afterwards is sweet....
Ok hope it is as hot for you as it was for us.....let me know would love hear the feed back. Have fun!!!

iceburn · 10-21-2004, 12:27 PM

Yeah, like he said.

MooseMan3000 · 10-21-2004, 05:18 PM

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Fohur2 · 10-21-2004, 05:22 PM

That was great just.some good erotic material.

imkeen · 10-21-2004, 09:55 PM

Ya know, teasing and spontenaity is one of the greatest turn ons. Tease him then real him in...

As far as things to get...stockings or thigh-high boots, a good dildo, various 'heat' or lubrication lotions.

Positions...all of them.... :-)

beteez2 · 10-22-2004, 12:29 PM

tie his hands to the bed with 2 of his ties & give him head but dont let him cum keep brining him to the brink & then back off. This will drive him crazy in a good way.
Head while driving a car is always hun also, or you could just masturbate in front of him.

10-19-2004, 01:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
pandafaye Tilted Location: Maine	Stereotype kinda girl I have always been really inhibited sexually. This has changed a lot since I've been with my current boyfriend. Long story short, I want to try new things and do interesting things to him, but a lot of what I do seems stereotypical or "boring." I guess what I'm asking is if anyone has any really interesting ideas for me to try, or perhaps some unique experiences to share. What would you want to see your girl do? Last edited by pandafaye; 10-19-2004 at 02:30 PM..

10-19-2004, 03:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
Konichiwaneko The Dreaded Pixel Nazi Location: Inside my camera	I've always been a fan of the waking up in the middle of the night to see my girlfriend straddling me naked going at me. I've had that happen a few times with different people, and it never changes the rush. __________________ Hesitate. Pull me in. Breath on breath. Skin on skin. Loving deep. Falling fast. All right here. Let this last. Here with our lips locked tight. Baby the time is right for us... to forget about us.

10-19-2004, 03:21 PM	#3 (permalink)
Dale Kemp Crazy Location: New Mexico	Tell him you want to be his slave for a night. Then do exactly what he tells you, really submissive like. If he's hesitant, suggest he make you strip tease for him, then tie you up and maybe spank you. After he gets to have you do some things for him, he'll get the idea, and start to stretch you comfort zone. Better idea. After a week or two from when you were last his slave, tell him you want to be his slave again. Only this time you want him to really take charge! __________________ Trueheart

10-19-2004, 08:11 PM	#5 (permalink)
Irishsean edited for content Location: Austin, TX	If he refuses, turn the tables and make him your slave... __________________ There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances. Leon Trotsky

10-20-2004, 12:16 PM	#8 (permalink)
Dane Bramage Insane Location: Charlotte, NC	Animated Kama Sutra (NSFW) Here is a Kama Sutra Site to get you started... http://users.forthnet.gr/ath/nektar/kma/main.htm I also support the "get some porn to watch together" idea... or hell, just watch it yourself. It can be great inspiration. If it looks like fun... chances are it is. I always have new and interesting things to try with my g/f... and I have never heard her complain yet. __________________ Every passing hour brings the Solar System forty-three thousand miles closer to Globular Cluster M13 in Hercules — and still there are some misfits who insist that there is no such thing as progress. Kurt Vonnegut - Sirens of Titan Last edited by Dane Bramage; 10-20-2004 at 12:17 PM.. Reason: added titel

10-20-2004, 09:17 AM	#6 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	Invite a friend, play a role, bring in food, buy some toys; comon, use your imagination! You know what your turn ons are. You probably have some idea of what his turn ons are. If you don't check out his porn on his comp.

10-20-2004, 10:59 AM	#7 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	Take him to a strip club, rent some porn to watch together, try Karma Sutra... This could be one killer list.

10-20-2004, 01:16 PM	#9 (permalink)
Rinndalir Insane	Communicate, be open, and get into it. I've been in a relationship where the sex was really lousy, the girl wasn't into it and would never try anything new ('That's kinky' or 'Ew that's gross'). My wife is always willing to try something new, and she always enjoys it because she's making me happy, that's just as important as the trying out part. Some stuff she does that drives me nuts: Wear sexy lingire Play dressup for me, schoolgirl, nurse, etc Trashy makeup (heavy eyeshadow, lipstick...) Yell and scream and talk dirty, she's naturally loud so I just encourage her to be louder Shave her privates bald Cum on her face porno style, a BIG turnon for me And I'm going to say anal sex because, neither of us really enjoy it so we don't do it, but lots of guys love it Of course it works both ways, he should be willing to try out your ideas and fantasies. And its not like we do something new or kinky every time, between work and our kid we don't have time to, but when we do have time it makes it alot more fun.

10-20-2004, 03:30 PM	#10 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane Degenerate Location: San Marvelous	Think of a very kinky or unusually thing that would really turn you on, and reveal it to him. Ask him if he would do it for you. He'll love you for it. __________________ Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam.

10-20-2004, 03:43 PM	#11 (permalink)
Kalnaur Psycho Location: Portland, Oregon	If you are of age, and he is as well, walk into one of the lingerie & more kind of stores in your area. You know, with everything from simple stuff (condoms) to a bit out there (Replicas of entire female genatalia and posterior in some cases) to bondage gear and toys. Take him with you, and just laugh at all the absurd things, and suggest to him anything that looks like fun to you. Chances are, you'll get ideas, and so will he. It will also give you the chance to show you don't feel so uptight about sex. __________________ PC: Can you help me out here HK? HK-47: I'm 98% percent sure this miniature organic meatbag wants you to help find his fellow miniature organic meatbags. PC: And the other 2 percent? HK-47: The other 2 percent is that he is just looking for trouble and needs to be blasted, but that might be wishful thinking on my part.

10-20-2004, 04:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	I get all my ideas from porn. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

10-20-2004, 06:25 PM	#13 (permalink)
jenjen Tilted Location: Oregon	I think what could be really fun would be to do a strip tease for him and lap dance. See how turned on you can get him by dancing seductively...and do a slow strip tease...trust me it is fun!!!

10-20-2004, 09:43 PM	#14 (permalink)
SparklingDot Insane	Don't be afraid to start with the things that you consider "ordinary." Those can be great starting points and give you ideas for variations on what works and what doesn't. Exploration is a great way to make your relationship grow, in and out of the bedroom. __________________ 17 seconds is all you really need - Smashing Pumpkins

10-21-2004, 01:18 AM	#15 (permalink)
Jay You Dee Tilted Location: Cleveland, TN	I'm with Rinndalir. Nutting on my g/f's face, tits, in her mouth from a distance, all over her and any other place you can think of just really puts the icing on the cake (literally) after a really great BJ. She claims she likes it too - but please remember to close your eyes or they will burn and maybe swell shut (lookin out for you!) And do it with him above your head maybe, because if it gets in your nose, you will sneeze teh manjuice all over your bed, walls, car window, desk.. or whatever kinky place you might be doing that (lookin out for both of yuns~) Oh and BJs in the car are great. Just tell him to take the back way somewhere and wink at him. Start undoing his pants when you get to a secluded area.. and well you know what to do from there. Trust me, he will love you for it. And don't mind what he says as he 'goes' because he might even propose to you if it's the first time you've done that Or maybe, when you give him head, go down and lick the stepkids and have him call you a dirty little whore NOW THAT ONE'S NOT FOR EVERYONE, but my GF never seems to mind it Basically, I'm a head guy, I love head with every ounce of my being, and my girlfriend is a godess and the most perfect female living because she does it in the oddest and most obscure moments, plus she's just damn good at it. So yeah, those might be too many details about me being a sick minded perv, but hey.. you asked what he might like

10-21-2004, 12:01 PM	#16 (permalink)
justjt Tilted Location: O.C. California	Wow the possibilities are endless....but try this one and see where it goes. Girlfriend did this for me and it was so hot... Go out and buy a new dildo and some lube (keep within the size of his cock...lol) Then get a little white t-shirt and make it a half shirt (just short enough to see the bottom of your breasts) Wear a pair of white thong panties and white little anklet socks Have your hair a little bit wet (like half blow-dried) and rub a vanilla scented lotion all over you (Amber Romance/Victorias Secret) Light some candles in the room and put some music on that you know he likes or that you both like to have sex to. When he comes home meet him at the door and lead him in to the bed room. Now you can do it either of two ways...you can have him on the bed with you or what was really hot for us was to have a chair set up beside the bed for him to sit in. Strip his clothes off of him and sit him down and whisper the rules to him... He can touch himself/ you can touch him/ but he can't touch you until you give him permission. Ok now for the fun...climb onto the bed and begin to masturbate for him using your fingers first keeping your panites on and just pulling them to the side to insert your fingers. Then when your good and wet slip off your panites (keep the shirt and little socks on) and bring out your dildo...get out your lube and lube up your toy and your pussy...don't be stingy get it all good and slippery. (men love to hear the sounds of a wet pussy being played with) By now hopefully he is playing with himself and has a raging erection (I did)...now start fucking yourself with your toy...every now and then exposing your nipples and playing with them...never lose eye contact with him. Do it fast then slow be vocal let him know how good it feels ask him if he likes the way it looks going in and of you...Then get on all fours and do it from behind...(make sure there is enough candles lit so he can see everything)...then for fun put some lube on his cock and jerk it for him for a while then make him do it himself again...then when your ready to cum...have him use the toy on you and you jerk him off till you both cum together (let him cum all over you)....I was so hard and turned on we ended just having sex right after it was extremely hot!!! Then a nice shower together afterwards is sweet.... Ok hope it is as hot for you as it was for us.....let me know would love hear the feed back. Have fun!!! Last edited by justjt; 10-21-2004 at 12:03 PM..

10-21-2004, 12:27 PM	#17 (permalink)
iceburn Tilted Location: CT	Yeah, like he said. __________________ ... and shit.

10-21-2004, 05:18 PM	#18 (permalink)
MooseMan3000 wouldn't mind being a ninja. Location: Maine, the Other White State.	deleted.... didn't mean to post

10-21-2004, 05:22 PM	#19 (permalink)
Fohur2 Crazy	That was great just.some good erotic material.

10-21-2004, 09:55 PM	#20 (permalink)
imkeen Insane	Ya know, teasing and spontenaity is one of the greatest turn ons. Tease him then real him in... As far as things to get...stockings or thigh-high boots, a good dildo, various 'heat' or lubrication lotions. Positions...all of them.... :-) Last edited by imkeen; 10-21-2004 at 09:58 PM..

10-22-2004, 12:29 PM	#21 (permalink)
beteez2 Upright Location: ga	tie his hands to the bed with 2 of his ties & give him head but dont let him cum keep brining him to the brink & then back off. This will drive him crazy in a good way. Head while driving a car is always hun also, or you could just masturbate in front of him.