I can give you a first person point of view. I am going through a divorce presently. I have been married 20 years. Without going into specific details I can tell you that I nor my husband have failed this marriage. It is a situation of 2 ppl who can no longer stay together. Reasons...there are several. Change being one of those reasons. I've seen people stay in relationships solely because it is the 'right' thing to do. They are very unhappy people. Please until you've walked in this situation, don't judge people who are. Thanks and good luck with your research.
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"You can't shake hands with a clenched fist."
Ghandi
"Things do not change: We change"
Henry David Thoreau
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